Grudge on Board - Funny Sarcastic Grudge Holder Tee
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Grudge on Board - Funny Sarcastic Grudge Holder Tee
Officially, everyone has been forgiven. Unofficially, I remember the 2014 group dinner where the bill was split evenly and I had a side salad. I remember who took the last parking spot at the reunion and what they were wearing. I remember the coworker who presented my slide as his own, and I wave at him every morning, warmly, the way you wave at someone you have a file on. None of this slows me down. It travels with me, buckled in, everywhere I go. A funny grudge shirt for the quiet scorekeeper who never needed a notebook. Drive accordingly.
THE FINE PRINT
A yellow diamond road sign with rounded corners and a thin inner border, GRUDGE in big heavy capitals across the middle and ON BOARD smaller underneath. The lettering and the border are knocked out of the yellow, so they show the shirt. Distressed all over: cracks, chips and specks.
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ASKING FOR A FRIEND
How long should you hold a grudge?
Psychologists generally advise not long: a grudge kept for years tends to cost the holder more sleep and stress than it costs the other person. Most suggest naming the hurt, deciding what you need, then letting the rest go. The people who ignore this advice tend to have excellent memories.
What does it mean to keep score in a relationship?
It means tracking who did what for whom and bringing the tally out during arguments. Counselors see it as a sign that one or both people feel shortchanged. The tally is rarely written down. It does not need to be.
Why can't I just let things go?
Common reasons include feeling the hurt was never acknowledged, a habit of replaying events and a strong sense of fairness. Writing it down, talking it through or giving it a set time to fade can help. Some people prefer to let it ride along instead.
